Purchasing Tea At A Cafe. Where Common Sense And Capitalism Clash. I completely understand the concept of charging more for the enjoyment of more. Tea is an interesting category though. If you order it at most any cafe you are presented with a choice paradox. On the one hand they charge more for each increasing…
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Waiting For Inspiration. Avoiding Failure #227
Inspiration Doesn’t Come In The Waiting. It Comes In The Doing. You will never be able to sit and wait for inspiration to strike you. Waiting is inspiration’s antithesis. Inspiration fades fast if you do nothing. Wanting helps increase desire. It helps to push you forward to engage in actions directed at achievement. But wanting…
Neglecting The Third Option Failure #226
There Is Always A Third Option One We Usually Have To Discover On Our Own. We often think the way to arrive at attainment of certain goals is to follow a linear path towards your destination. Usually this path is limited. Often we tend to follow these well worn trails towards our goals, because they…
Not Addressing Trauma. Failure #225.
Many Experience Painful Trauma, Usually At A Very Early Age. And The Way It Manifests Itself In Your Life Can Have Profound Consequences. This Is Why It Must Be Addressed. First and foremost if you have ever experienced any trauma in life and want to confront it. I highly recommend reading “The Body Keeps The…
Labeling Simple Explanations As Mansplaining. Failure #224
Mansplaining, A Denegrating Term Used For The Act Of A Man Giving Unsolicited Advice Usually To A Person Of The Opposite Sex. If the “mansplaining” is unsolicited you can for sure respectfully decline their “knowledge.” Those who impose, never last long at the table anyway. However, sometimes people are just interested in learning and passing…
Purchasing A Peloton Or It’s Stock #223.
For The Price Of A Used Vehicle You Can Own A Peloton Stationary Bicycle. Never did I think I would see the day where someone would attach a tablet to a stationary bike then charge to watch Youtube bicycle training videos. But here we are. And the total cost for such an apparatus. Anywhere between…
Employers Dictating What You Do Outside Of Work. #222
Employers Don’t Own Us. So What We Do Outside Of Work Should Have No Bearing On Our Employment. Yet a lot of employers like to treat you as if they own you. And a lot of industries set up rules as if they own you. Not only for the time that you put in at…
Performance Anxiety #221
Some People Are More Self Conscious Than Others And Deal With An Unrelenting Inner Voice. Which Creates A Mental Struggle Empowering Performance Anxiety. This can happen in any setting. Public speaking, sexually, conversationally. It happens in sports all the time. Performance anxiety is more about the discomfort of the situation and the pressure put on…
Labeling Narcissist #220
If You Place A Narcissist Label Upon Another. Know That It Makes You A Narcissist Yourself. Why do you label them a narcissist in the first place? Is it because you are not having “your” needs met? That they pay more attention to themselves then to you? Why do you care about what others do…
Destroying Your Reputation #219.
Reputation Takes A Lifetime To Build But Only Seconds To Destroy. This has to be one of the most unfair statement in history. Work your whole life for something as important as one’s own reputation. Only to make one false move and it’s gone. Is this more of a preamble to the fact we are…